Thakif represents Kelab Belia Kebajikan Setia Alam, a society that provides free condoms and lubricants, as well as HIV tests for any who are interested.
The group’s target is men who have sex with men, a loose term that encompasses homosexuals, bisexuals, pansexuals and men who engage in sex with other men in environments with no women, such as prisons or the military.
“I handle the Shah Alam and USJ area,” he said, but conducts his outreach work mainly through online apps such as Twitter or dating apps because many people will not publicly reveal they engage in such sexual activities. “Nor can we set up booths promoting our work due to the stigma.”
Thakif said the group does not merely provide condoms but also educates the community on the importance of using protection to prevent HIV.
In 2018, the health ministry said 57% of HIV transmission came from men who had sex with men.
Thakif said his group provides condoms, lubricants and tests, and conducts support groups for those who are HIV positive yet unaware of how to begin treatment. It also holds engagement sessions on topics related to the virus and sexual health.
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Although he kept his work a secret from his family and acknowledged the risks given the taboo surrounding sex in Malaysia, he remained steadfast in his efforts to raise awareness of HIV.
Anyone was at risk so long as they partook in unprotected sex, not merely men who have sex with men.
“Those who engage in straight sex tend to believe they are not at risk and usually get tested when they wish to get married,” he said.
“I cannot stress enough the importance of testing, knowing your status and early detection. Get tested, every three months if you are sexually active, six months if occasionally. Even if just once, get tested.”
Thakif cited the case of a person who had not been sexually active for five years and got tested only when he wanted to get married. He tested HIV-positive and would, unfortunately, lose in his battle against the virus.
Although there has been backlash and criticism of his group’s work, Thakif said he was motivated to continue as part of the national effort to end AIDS by 2030.
He said the group has the support of the health ministry and the Malaysian AIDS Council.
“I will try to help however and wherever I can,” he said.