Young mother has ‘40 other children’ she calls family

Young mother has ‘40 other children’ she calls family

Saseikala Subramaniam runs the Thangam Illam welfare home in Ampang that looks after children, the disabled, and the elderly.

Saseikala Subramaniam is a mother of three and ‘amma’ to 40 other kids who live at Thangam Illam Welfare Home. (Moganraj Villavan @ FMT pic)
AMPANG:
Barely six hours since calling it a night, Saseikala Subramaniam is back on her feet, fixing breakfast for her husband Jayakumar Shellamuthu and the couple’s three children.

The moment she’s done, the full-time homemaker makes a dash down the street where her “other 40 children” live. She must ensure they are all bathed and fed.

From as young as four years old, these “children” under her care are residents of the Thangam Illam Welfare Home in Taman Pandan Indah that she runs with two assistants.

Saseikala helps one of the girls at Thangam Illam with her dress. (Moganraj Villavan @ FMT pic)

Her husband, a full-time businessman, also pitches in when he can.

Saseikala has been running the home for the past 13 years, though it was founded much earlier by her in-laws to provide shelter for the destitute.

For the residents of Thangam Illam, Saseikala is known as “amma” (mother), and the shelter she provides is much more than just a roof over their heads. It is home.

Aside from the children of families who can’t afford to look after them, the home also cares for special needs kids and the elderly.

Thangam Illam is also home to elderly folk. (Moganraj Villavan @ FMT pic)

“Here, we are a family, and amma is like our mother. She is very caring but she can also be strict,” says M Ramachandra, 17, one of the older boys in the home.

“When we are naughty, she scolds us but it is for our own good.”

B Kartthini, 16, said she is grateful that Saseikala is looking out for them, and spends quality time with them watching movies or playing games.

“Amma is always very supportive. I like Bharatanatyam (Indian classical dance), and they have sent me for classes,” says S Devaki, referring to Saseikala and her husband.

For Saseikala, running the home involves looking after the residents’ needs, including helping the younger ones with their studies and carrying out indoor activities with them so they are kept mentally sharp.

While the older kids are capable of studying on their own, Saseikala is on hand to help the younger ones with their studies. (Moganraj Villavan @ FMT pic)

“Sometimes, we just sit together and chat. I just want them to feel at home. My own kids also spend a lot of time here, they all grow up together.”

Looking back, Saseikala says she has come a long way from the self-doubting person she was initially.

Indoor activities occasionally include watching TV together. (Moganraj Villavan @ FMT pic)

She tells FMT she remembers all too clearly back in the early days when she wondered if she was up to the task of caring for so many on a daily basis.

“But I have never regretted doing this. I feel so happy whenever I can help my children. It melts my heart when they look for me. I just want the best for them, I want all of them to succeed.

“To me they are all my children. They aren’t any different from my own kids.”

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