
The emergence of a child’s first tooth is a milestone often met with excitement from proud parents. It also marks the ideal time for their first dental visit.
For many children – and adults! – the idea of visiting the dentist stirs up apprehension and anxiety. While such feelings are natural, the right approach can help ease these fears, transforming dental appointments into positive experiences.
Introducing your child to the dentist shortly after the emergence of their first tooth, and ensuring regular appointments thereafter, can help them become familiar with the dental environment. This significantly reduces worries during subsequent visits.
To make dental concepts more relatable, engaging and fun, parents can play games such as counting their teeth or demonstrating brushing on a toy.
For those seeking specialised care for their children, paediatric dentists are an option. These professionals specialise in treating younger patients, ensuring they receive care tailored to their unique needs, both medically and emotionally.
Paediatric dentists are adept at addressing specific challenges and fears children might face, offering an environment both comforting and age-appropriate.
Today, many dental clinics are recognising the need to cater to younger patients through kid-friendly environments with thematic designs like dinosaurs, undersea adventures, or playground waiting areas.
Such engaging themes captivate children’s imaginations, diverting their attention and reducing anxiety before their appointments.

The language we use to describe dental procedures greatly influences a child’s perception. By avoiding potentially alarming terms like “pain”, “shot” or “drill”, and allowing the dental team to use child-friendly vocabulary, parents can make visits seem less intimidating.
Additionally, reading children’s books about dental appointments can help kids be more comfortable with the process.
Indeed, parents play a pivotal role in shaping their child’s attitude towards dental visits. Children often mirror adult emotions, so speaking positively about appointments establishes calm. Assure your child that the dentist is there to help, not harm.
While rewarding good behaviour after a dentist visit can be motivating, it’s essential to strike a balance. Using dental appointments as bargaining chips can inadvertently introduce negative associations.
Finally, open communication with the dental team is crucial. Understanding the root of a child’s anxiety allows professionals to employ tailored techniques, ensuring a smoother experience.
At the end of the day, positive dental experiences for children require understanding, preparation, and the right professional guidance. With these elements in place, teeth-chattering anxiety can be transformed into confidence and smiles.
This article was written by Dr Nabihah Dziaruddin, lecturer and paediatric dental specialist at Universiti Malaya.