Meet Yuri, the bodybuilder who marries his dolls

Meet Yuri, the bodybuilder who marries his dolls

Yuri Tolochko is so crazy about his sex dolls, he marries them and lives a love story with them on a daily basis.

Yuri and his baby dolls. © Yuri Tolochko
PARIS:
A veritable mountain of muscles, 36-year-old Yuri Tolochko from Kazakhstan likes to post pictures of himself with his hairy chest exposed and in suggestive poses on social networks.

He is newly divorced but it hasn’t taken him long to find love again.

He doesn’t say much about his past marriage or his separation from the doll “Margo.”

“I’m not ready to talk about our divorce. It was a real love. I met Margo in a nightclub where she was a hostess. One day a bad guy tried to break her. I fought with the guy. She became my wife.”

A union that went viral in 2019 when the bodybuilder was legally married with his sex doll, surrounded by a dozen guests.

In the video posted on social networks, people see the bride looking like an oversized Barbie doll in a lavish dress, responding to the loving expressions of her groom with a frozen look.

But is it possible to get married with an object? In Kazakhstan, yes. You just have to be of age.

And what about consent? Margo did not say the famous YES, but it was judged that there was consent as she doesn’t speak.

And so, in the realm of Instagram, in front of 100,000 jubilant followers, the wedding took place.

And Yuri created Lola

Unfortunately, this union was rather short-lived, and the divorce was awarded a few months later.

One year later, Yuri decided to create “with his rather handy neighbour,” THE ONE, the one who embodies all his feminine ideals. Namely a hybrid sex doll “half woman, half chicken,” as he likes to say.

Thus was born Lola, a light-eyed brunette with a helium-filled bird’s body. “Lola is perfect for me. She is my soulmate.”

Yuri demonstrates the doll and how she is equipped for sexual relations in home shopping mode without any complex.

He speaks freely and lengthily on the matter. He has said that he was bored by classical sex and has been drawn to fetishism and BDSM since childhood.

But we don’t get any details about his childhood. “Let’s say that I was raised alone,” he said.

It would be easy to see Yuri as a compulsive yet elaborate masturbator. He notes that he has written four books of poetry; he is an opera director, an acting teacher, a public speaking coach, an accomplished musician (he can be seen on Instagram playing the piano in a rather skilful way), and a Kazakh bodybuilding champion.

His gaze towards his doll is tender, and between answers he brushes Lola’s hair, adjusts her position and caresses her cheek. His smile is warm.

Moreover, his family and friends have learned to accept Yuri’s whims. “My family and friends sometimes laugh and say that I’m crazy, but they love me and I love them too. And they accept me. I make their life less boring.”

Special delivery

This year, Yuri received his second fiancée. Who arrived in a big box.

He decided to share this intense moment with his subscribers who witnessed the “birth” of Luna, a full-bodied blonde with Asian features, with lipstick smeared everywhere like fiery kisses.

A contest was launched to give her a name. “I was so excited that Lola and I would be joined by Luna. She is smaller than Lola. She looks like a model. I have a real sexual attraction to her.”

Both dolls were made in March at Yuri’s request. “I am a Capricorn. I have always had deep relationships with people of the Pisces sign.”

And since then, it’s been a “big love” scenario.

The “throuple” does everything together: make love, go out to restaurants, attend evening parties with friends and even go on trips! The good life… Well, traveling is complicated.

“Before I used to travel easily in the cabin with Margo, I just wrote a note to the airline to get their permission. But I had to put Luna in the luggage compartment. It’s probably because of Covid,” Yuri says.

And so, people can see on social networks the bodybuilder packing up Luna in pieces, an arm in a bag, head in a box, for a loved-up weekend in Bulgaria.

But daily living with love dolls must be rather silent, with not much in terms of exchanges. But Yuri refutes this.

“I can talk with them a little. Every day I touch them, I hug them. It’s my ritual. It’s love. I have an emotional connection with them. But I have different feelings for them. I love that Luna is really tender, really small and really sexy for me. But also, I love that Lola is soft.”

Sexual positivity

Yuri has a message. He wants his story to help people who, like him, love sex dolls, to express it openly, to “help people accept themselves.” He also wants his experience to help women who have a complex, to feel free because “everyone has the right to happiness.”

How does Yuri’s story speak to women and men?

“I think men love my experience more than women. I have received a lot of messages. Thousands of messages.”

He wants to see more balance between genders. Then he continues about his own feelings.

“I love my dolls. It’s really different. We speak about emotional connection. Now, for example, you can love your car, or a musician can love his instrument, his violin, for example,” he reflects. “It’s not always possible to explain it.”

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