Many men give themselves the right to choose whether to wear condoms. However, just because you are the one whom the condom is on, doesn’t make wearing condoms solely your decision.

When two people have sex, they are both responsible for each other’s health. It’s your job to wear a condom so you don’t get sexually transmitted diseases or a surprise baby. But men are good at making excuses not to wear condoms.

Here are the most common excuses and how to beat them:

I’m healthy

Sexually transmitted diseases may not show any symptoms. Almost 70% of women and 50% of men with chlamydia do not have any symptom at all. You may not have sores and warts, but there is a chance that you already have the virus.

Even if you’re able to provide a negative blood test result, you still need to worry about unwanted pregnancy.

I don’t want to wear a condom

Using a condom is much more easier than treating sexually transmitted diseases. Besides, condoms can be fun, too. Try different textures, colours, and flavours.

If he still tells you this after you have explained your reasons to him, you should be able to tell him you don’t want to have sex with him any more.

Condoms reduce sensitivity

Don’t let the man fool you with this excuse. Brands now sell condoms that are so thin that you can’t even feel if there is one on.

Besides, there are condoms specifically designed to increase sensitivity for the both of you. Nevertheless, tell him he may enjoy the reduced sensitivity if he has the habit of coming too quickly.

I don’t have a condom

This excuse is pretty easy to deal with. Always keep some condoms near your bed and some in your handbag. Even if you don’t plan to have sex, it’s best to have condoms handy all the time, just to be safe.

I’m too big, nothing fits me

Condoms come in all shapes and sizes. As long as you are still a human being, there will be something that fits you. Look at your feet. You don’t go barefoot because you’re a big guy, do you?

If you can find the right shoe size, you should care enough to find the right condom size.

I’m allergic to condoms

Its true that some men are allergic to latex. But there are condoms made from plastic (polyurethane). Ask him to switch to plastic condoms.

If he still refuses to use condoms, he’s certainly just making excuses. You can then proceed to tell him that you are allergic to bare penises.

The Hello Health Group does not provide medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.