Mixing business and relationships can be a recipe for disaster. People think that an entrepreneur who wants to start a business with his or her partner is stepping into unstable ground that could lead to clouded decision-making.

Thankfully, power couples like Kong Wan Sing and his wife Lu Liu, founders of JustCo, or Amanda Wee and her partner Simon Cheng of Pique Tea, or Lynsey Lim and her husband Adi Ong of Handmade Heroes prove that love and business can mix.

Being an entrepreneur while in a romantic relationship is a lot of work. However if you do it right, you can have the best of both worlds. You get to grow and spend a lot of time with your partner, doing the things you’re both passionate about.

Let’s take a look at what’s needed to make this setup successful.

1. The relationship comes first

This is the hardest step. No matter how demanding the business gets, your relationship should always be the priority.

Every entrepreneur knows the lure of heading straight on towards your dream. At the same time, it’s essential to never forget that you are reaching for those dreams with someone else.

2. Find someone who understands both love and business

Combining business and love is best done with someone who shares the same interests and passions as you. Whichever field you’re in, everything will be analysed, planned out and decided more effectively if your minds are similarly programmed.

Understand that you and your partner, as entrepreneurs, will clash, almost daily. There is no such thing as a perfect relationship with no arguments; and now, you just added business matters to the list that could trigger a fight.

The key is to be kind, respectful and to fight well. Imagine the sense of accomplishment when the topic you were fighting about gets resolved beautifully alongside things working out for the business.

3. Designate roles and responsibilities

Start with pinpointing your strengths and weaknesses. More often than not, you are with your partner because you complement each other.

This is the moment for both of your strengths to shine in order to make the business succeed. You’ve got a teammate and a partner you love bundled up into one, isn’t that great?

4. Be transparent

It’s the goal of every organisation to be as transparent as possible. This builds trust between the company and its employees as well as the organisation and the community.

A relationship that includes business and love will need to function in the same way.

We all know that trust is key in making the foundation of a romantic relationship strong and secure. As entrepreneurs, you will need to extend that trust even on business issues.

Transparency extends to honesty and leads to trust. The secret ingredient to make it work is communication because now, it is not only the success of your relationship that rests on you and your partner’s shoulders, but your business’s as well.

Whether you are completely annoyed at your partner or unsure of the next venture, issues must be communicated.

In a love-with-business relationship, you get to cheer each other on and be vulnerable with each other. This is because you know full well that you’ve got each other’s backs.

5. Create goals and dreams

It’s time to talk about short-term and long-term goals. As entrepreneurs, your two-year, five-year, and 10-year plans need to be plotted out with clear action steps.

As romantic partners, the same guidelines apply. Having your goals written down is a great way to make dreams into reality. This way, you’re holding yourselves accountable to achieving them.

The next step is to believe that together, you can achieve those dreams and goals.

6. Stick to a schedule

The first few years or the start-up period will demand a lot of your time and effort. Then there is your partner who you love and cannot disregard.

One way in overcoming the hurdle of a hectic schedule is to find a routine that works for you both. Simple things like setting one day every two weeks for grocery, scheduling a cleaning day, date nights, etc.

If you’re a “Friends” fan, then you’ll be familiar with Monica’s “lists, schedules, and notes addiction”. Find a way to create a routine, establish it, and make it work. This will help lighten the load and lower the chances of things piling up.

7. The fine line between entrepreneurship and relationship

Merging love and business is a very fulfilling situation to be in, but there are still some fine lines to be aware of. First and foremost is the phrase, “It’s not personal, it’s business.”

This is kind of ironic, right, because your romantic partner is also your business partner. But it still holds true for this kind of relationship.

When you and your partner are going through a rough patch personally, you can’t let it affect the business.

The same is true the other way around. Keeping the two from getting convoluted, especially when it comes to issues and problems, will help maintain clear decision-making.

8. Money matters

Do you create another joint account for the business? Is it wise to avail of a company credit card? Who will handle the finances? How much do you save versus how much to invest per month? Are you ready to increase salaries?

Money matters are usually tricky things to tackle but they are critical to the success of your relationship and business.

A money matter that requires special mention is the emergency fund. No matter how young and healthy you are or how stable things are financially, the emergency fund remains a priority. This infographic could help you jumpstart a more secure financial future.

This article first appeared in thenewsavvy.com

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